sensual shibari sessions
“The level of dedication that Luna brings into setting the scene, invoking the senses and dropping in with soft touch allows for an incredible space to surrender. To say that she leaves you wanting more is an understatement!”
-Ro, Vancouver Island
What is Shibari?
Shibari (“shibari” = “to tie, to bind”) is the art of Japanese Rope Bondage. Historically used to capture prisoners, Shibari has been adopted by the kink community, and in recent years has been gaining popularity in holistic wellness spaces as well.
Shibari is much more than knots and ties: It is a practice that centres connection between the top (the person tying) and the bottom/rope muse (the person getting tied), sensual touch, emotional and physical vulnerability, and surrender. A multifaceted modality, Shibari can happen in a variety of contexts (platonic, erotic, sexual) and offers different areas of focus: restriction and containment, the artfulness of aesthetic ties, or simply the sensuality of the experience.
Have you been dreaming of experiencing the exquisite art of rope play?
My approach to rope centres around:
✢ prioritizing your boundaries, needs and desires
✢ honouring your nervous system and listening to your body
✢ practicing ongoing consent
✢ playful, intuitive creative exploration
✢ care and sensual touch
Why Rope?
Clients come to me for a multitude of reasons: Some seek surrender and containment, others desire to learn more about what brings them pleasure, and many come because they want to explore kink in an intentional, consent-forward space.
A Sensual Shibari Session may offer:
…a space that centres open communication and is entirely created based on your desires, preferences, needs, limits and boundaries
…grounding, relaxation and nervous system regulation
…a sense of being held and contained
…an opportunity to lean into your sensuality and to receive caring touch
…a space to fully let go
…playful creative exploration and discovering new edges, likes & wants!
Rope changed my life.
My own journey with the ropes began a long time ago, with the quiet whisper of a desire to be bound, not quite knowing why…
When I finally got to experience being tied in an intentional, caring setting, I was absolutely blown away. The sensations, the connection, the structured communication, the unique intimacy, the sensuality… all aspects completely transcended my expectations. Being neurodivergent, I also found Shibari to be surprisingly regulating.
Now that I get to tie others, I feel deeply honoured to provide the space and care for others to experience rope in the ways that feel most aligned.
F.A.Q.
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All genders welcome. Must be 19+.
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This is entirely up to your comfort level. I ask that you wear underwear as a minimum.
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This is a collaborative process. I will choose ties based on the desires, curiosities and limitations you communicate with me through the intake form and in our consent conversation at the beginning of the session. I will check in with you about possible positions to be tied in and about where on your body you don’t want touch or rope.
I generally begin by introducing rope slowly and gently before moving into any restrictive ties. At any point during the session, you have the power to request changes, change your mind, or end the scene. Consent is of utmost importance.
I do not offer suspensions.
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This entirely depends on your personal preferences and desires, and on how our dynamic naturally unfolds in session.
While there is an inherent soft power dynamic when one person ties and the other is getting tied, the specific flavour and intensity of how we want to lean into this dynamic will vary from session to session.
I enjoy playful, caring and strict dynamics, and I particularly enjoy being called Goddess and playing in the realms of worship and sacred surrender. I do not enjoy dynamics involving degradation or humiliation.
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No. While feelings of pleasure and arousal may naturally arise and are welcome, I do not offer sexual touch in my sessions.
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If I have your explicit consent, I am happy to take some pictures and videos with either your or my phone.
If you would like the pleasure of professional photographs of you adorned with rope, flowers and plants, you can book a Rope Ritual with the Photography add-on!
If you’ve been feeling…
✧ disconnected from your pleasure and your sensuality
✧ a curiosity about platonic, sensual rope play
✧ stressed and dysregulated
✧ a desire to explore kink in an intentional setting
✧ unable to comfortably and confidently identify and voice your desires and boundaries
…a Sensual Shibari Session might be just the thing for you!
What To Expect:
Session Prep:
✢ Upon booking your session, you are prompted to fill out my intake form which helps me understand your intentions, desires and boundaries.
You can always book a free intro call with me first as well to chat about any questions or concerns you might have.
✢ The day before our session, you will be emailed details including directions and how to best prepare.
Session Day:
✢ We begin our session with a grounding check-in and in-depth consent + safety conversation. If desired, we may explore a consent game to practice feeling confident and embodied in communicating needs, desires and limits.
✢ I gently introduce rope and we move into tying, exploring different ties, positions and energetics, while weaving in sensual touch and movement. This portion of the session can be playful, meditative, exhilarating, relaxing, or all of the above. If desired, you may be blindfolded for part of the session.
✢ Gentle closing of the session. The last 10-15 min are reserved for aftercare, reflection & integration - and snacks :)
Integration:
✢ I will check in with you the following day via email, as this is part of my aftercare process.
This is also an opportunity for you to share any reflections and insights you may have had since our session.
Please note that I do not offer suspensions at this time.
BOOKING
Sensual Shibari Session
Sessions are held in a private space in Esquimalt (Victoria), BC ****
Upon booking, you will be prompted to complete an intake form to indicate your intentions, desires and boundaries for your session
$250 CAD // 90-120 min Split pay options available
If we haven’t met or spoken yet, please book a free 15-min intro call first:
****Please note that there are several sets of stairs leading up to the space and there is no elevator, hence it is not wheelchair accessible